GAY AREA

The Crux of Gay Relationships...

In contrast, gay men are not as monogomous as female homosexuals. In fact, the general perception is that they are extremely promiscuous. In some cases, this perception is much deserved. Hearing such men boast of having had a thousand lovers in their lives has only enforced this false concept. The truth is that, like any young man, they go through the same stage of over-experimenting when the "Pandora's Box" of sexuality is first opened wide. However, the basic human need for friendship, companionship, and intimately relating to someone special eventually kicks in. As a result, the time comes when they settle into what are more stable relationships--some for a lifetime.

In a world dominated by heterosexuals, those who have chosen the gay lifestyle are not understood in the same context that the word "love" implies. Yet, the reality is that there is little difference except for the fact that these are same-sex relationships.

Romance is not limited to heterosexuals. It is alive and well amongst all those who belong to the gay community, whether they be men, women, bisexuals, or transsexuals, etc.

Even though our society has become more tolerant of those who choose this lifestyle, there are still many who cannot or will not accept gay people. The challenge to live peaceably and in harmony with those around them is a constant one that will never go away. Whether it's a passing stranger whose expression denotes disapproval or a beloved family member who feigns love without providing any support, there will always be those who focus only on their sexuality while failing to recognize them as real people.

Disagree with their choice if you will, but keep in mind that people are human beings regardless of their sexual orientation. How we treat each other goes a long way in demonstrating our own humanity, or lack of it.