Gay: the whys and whereforesFeb 01, 2007 |
Opinions that concern homosexuality vary from hatred and hypocrisy till sympathy and manifestation.
Earlier homosexuality was said to be a perversion, which was a sexual attraction towards individuals of the same sex, or even an illness that was characterized by abnormal drive towards the same sex.
And these statements still occur in spite of the fact that in 1973 American Psychiatric Association's Board removed homosexuality from the official manual and in 1991 World Health Organization declared it not a disease state or mental disorder.
Questions about what is the main cause that leads to this particular sex orientation remain still open and controversial (disputed). Authors that tried to analyze this moot point divided their opinions into several categories.
Sigmund Freud was one of the first to propose a theory that all individuals are inherently bisexual. Later one can become homosexual as a result of family environment peculiarities.
Due to his believes sex orientation is forming between 3 and 5 years old, when a boy feels strong love and sexual feelings towards his mother and almost hatred feelings towards his father, as he sees him a rival.
This phenomenon has become a well-known Oedipus complex in psychology. When a child overcomes this complex, his sex orientation most probably becomes traditional.
Otherwise when a boy stays fixed on this stage of development due to wrong relationships between his parents, he identifies himself with his mother and this results in a desire to submit himself to a man.
Such facts as over-dominating, indifferent and overprotecting mother or hostile, dough-faced father or his absence can predispose a boy to homoerotism.
Nevertheless, it should be mentioned that these factors don't determine that a child surely will become gay. Many children that were born in various unfavorable family conditions keep to heterosexual orientation.
Alfred Kinsey discovered that same-sex contacts and moreover homoerotic feelings are quite wide-spread. He made a great contribution in declaring homosexuality not pathology or illness, but a norm of behavior.
Still neither of psychological theories was certainly proved and many scientists began searching for other reasons. For this purpose there were made several investigations on groups of binovular and monovular twins, that proved that if one of the twins was homosexual in monovular pair other one will be homosexual in almost 100%.
Many scientists considered hormonal influence very important too. Nevertheless, hormonal injections didn’t affect sexual orientation anyway.
The main problem is that nobody knows why one becomes homosexual as well as nobody knows why the other becomes heterosexual. It would be silly to name homosexuality an illness if you can't explain this or both your intolerance and ignorance don't let you be more loyal with gays.
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