Gays and sex addictionApr 29, 2008 |
What is sex addiction?
Sex addiction is quite complicated form of addiction. Sex addiction may include addiction to cyber sex, masturbation, pornography or relationships. A man may feel an irresistible striving for sex activity, one can cruise around rest-rooms, bars, baths and other public places, others are trapped in sex industry: pornography production and prostitutes Those, who are sexually addicted fail to stop their sexual behavior by themselves. The main difference between just a high libido and sex addiction is that sex is not a source of pleasure for its sufferers, but rather a way to cope with stress. Sex addiction is connected with feeling of shame, despair, confusion, constant dissatisfaction and loneliness. Addicts spend a lot of time and energy on sex sensations. Their sexual behavior is characterized by obsession and unhealthy fixation on any form of sexual activity, be it real or fantasy.
Cause of sex addiction for gays:
Escape
As a main cause of any addiction, escape is a mechanism to avoid troubles, stress, depression, loneliness or whatever it may be. The point is that an addict doesn’t want to face and solve all the problems and prefers to escape from them. When a gay fails to manage with homophobic pressure he may choose an escape to sex addiction too.
Childhood experience are strong enough, though most of them seem to be forgotten, much painful experience is left in unconsciousness and finds its roundabout way to addiction. Bad relationships with parents, school abuses and inferiority complex are just some of the childhood experiences, which may lead to this kind of addiction for gays.
Signs of sex addiction
Inability to withstand sex drive
Once a person feels sex urge he may be unable to resist the temptation. Addict is overwhelmed with the sex impulse and forgets everything that is not connected with his “desire”.
Inability to stop and control sexual activity
Sex addict tries to limit his sexual activity to a reasonable degree but fails to do so. Like a drug addict he thinks it will be only on weekends or it will be the last time.
Increased duration and preparation for sexual activity
A person, who is sexually addicted, is planning his “excitement experience” not only hours, but days and even weeks before. He may find himself spending a days and nights cruising favorite “places of interest” and internet sites with pornography content.
Interference with other aspects of life
It is a usual thing that sex addiction interferes with its sufferer’s family, work and relationships with others. All the plans and responsibilities are set aside for only one purpose – sex addiction.
Ignorance of the possible harm
An addict may be quite aware of the possible consequences of his behavior, but still is unable to control it. STD’s risk or an arrest for improper behavior can not stop him from continuing his sexual activity.
It is important to remember that sex addiction is not a temporary state. If one gets addicted he feels a primary euphoria, which is followed by pain feelings. In their turn an addict is seeking a relief over and over again and as a result is never satisfied. Sex addiction is a state that can be cured and is cured successfully by specialists. It is not a particular problem, which is faced only by gays, but it can refer to anyone, who gets trapped into sex addiction.
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