The Art of Anal StimulationMar 25, 2008 |
One of the most erogenous male zones is anus with plenty of nerve endings that have a potential to bring you the powerful orgasm and enormous pleasure. If you want to give your partner maximum pleasure, it is high time to explore that unknown area.
- Foreplay.
Very often guys do not like to spend a lot of time on foreplay, preferring to go straight to the point. However, anal play needs some time to get used to the feeling and experience all the pleasures of backdoor sex. Do not focus on his penis only, you may as well touch his entire body; his nipples, lips, neck and other parts to awaken his body for something saucier. - Rimming
One of the most enjoyable anal plays is rimming, when you stimulate your partner's anus with your tongue and lips. It is important to note that for safer sex you should use a dental dam or condom to cover up the anal area to prevent from passing germs. You may lick around his anus or make some movements with your tongue that stimulate penetration. This is very enjoyable for a receptive partner who becomes more relaxed during play and may want for something more than anal teasing with your tongue. - Prostate stimulation.
Once your man is aroused, you may go on to stimulate his P-zone or his prostate that is located inside his anus about two inches inside. Use a lubricant and apply it on your fingers, covered with a fingerstall or a condom. Insert one or two fingers inside and feel the area that feels like a walnut and try pressing against it. If your partner shows you the signs of excitement - you are doing everything just right. You may also lick his balls or stimulate his penis with your other hand to add more pleasure. Usually as he becomes more and more aroused he will ask for more intense stimulation. - Penetration with sex toys
Make anal penetration step by step, by using special sex toys such as butt plugs and probes. You may begin with smaller toys while inserting them into your partner's anus. Also use a lot of lubricant for smoother penetration as anus cannot lubricate itself. You may insert a butt plug and leave it for some time while giving him oral sex, so that he will get used to the feeling and become more relaxed. You may also slowly move the toy inside out to make him enjoy the penetration. - Penetration with penis
Watch over his reaction, as you see him more and more aroused, you may go for a real action. Start slowly, covering your penis with a condom and applying lots of lubricant. Choose a comfortable position and penetrate his anus with caution. Do not forget to keep on stimulating his other zones to make penetration more pleasant. Usually you will feel when your partner will want you to penetrate harder and deeper, but always try to stay in tune with your partner's desires so that both of you can have a mind-blowing satisfaction.
